6 Secrets Your Ex Is Hiding From You
— 6 Secrets Your Ex Is Hiding From You
Hey guys, Breakup Brad here… and in this video, I want to tell you about 6 very common secrets that your ex is likely keeping from you. And when I say “common”, I mean REALLY common… as in, it’s 99% likely that your ex is guilty of lying about at least 1 of these 6 things. I’ll explain what each of these 6 secrets are, and why your ex isn’t being honest about them.
Before I begin, though, let me just clarify one thing: I’m not suggesting that your ex is a bad person or that you should be upset at them for keeping secrets. In fact, all 6 of the common things your ex will lie about are completely natural and understandable… and sometimes they happen subconsciously, so you ex won’t even realize that they’re keeping secrets from you. So, I don’t think it’s fair to be angry at your ex for hiding any of these things from you, and I think most of us would do the same thing if the roles were reversed.
Let’s get into the first thing your ex is hiding from you…
Secret #1 – They’re not confident about the decision to break up.
Just because your ex decided they wanted to break up with you doesn’t mean they’re certain that they’ve made the right decision. If you’ve ever dumped someone, you probably know what I’m talking about: it’s not an easy decision, and there’s almost no chance that your ex is 100% confident that breaking up was the right call. They may have weighed the pros and cons many times before actually breaking the news to you, and decided that going your separate ways is the “right” thing to do… but that definitely doesn’t mean they’re sure about that decision.
In 90% of situations, your ex is going to be secretly hiding their own anxieties about breaking up. Was it the right decision? Will they live to regret it down the road? Will they ever be able to find someone like you again?
Simply put, your ex is going to be worried — at least on some level — that they’ve made the wrong choice by breaking up. They won’t likely admit it to you, and may sound 100% certain that the breakup is final, but usually they’re still internally conflicted to some extent.
You can take my free quiz to get a better idea of how “final” your ex’s decision to break up really is… the quiz will take your answers and analyze them to determine your chances of ever winning them back. It’s free, just go to BreakupBrad.com/Quiz after this video is over.
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Secret #2 – Your ex wasn’t fully honest when they told you WHY they wanted to break up.
I’ve covered this in previous videos already, but it’s a very very common thing for an ex to lie about why they wanted to break up… or, at the very least, only tell you part of the truth.
Most of the time, your ex will give you some generic reasons why they wanted to break up… things like “I am just too busy with school for a serious relationship” or “I just need some time to decide what I want” or “we don’t share any common interests”…. Typically, these things will actually just be a small part of their decision, or even a flat-out lie.
See, your ex is going to feel like they need to give you some kind of explanation as to why the relationship has end… but they also don’t want to hurt your feelings by telling you the full truth. For example, maybe they’re not as attracted to you anymore because you recently gained some weight… or maybe they found someone new that they’re falling for. Do you really think your ex is going to tell you that kind of thing, knowing how much it would hurt your feelings? Instead, they’ll come up with some other reason that’s less hurtful, like the old classic “it’s not you, it’s me” excuse.
What does this mean for you, know that your ex probably lied or withheld part of the truth? Well, it just means you should be skeptical about your ex’s explanation for the breakup, and avoid becoming overly fixated on whatever your ex said was the reason they wanted to end things.
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