6 Signs Your Ex Is Over You
— 6 Signs Your Ex Is Over You
What’s up YouTube, I am Brad Browning, a breakup and divorce coach based in beautiful Vancouver, Canada… and in this video, I’m going to be sharing the 6 biggest signs that indicate your ex is over you and moving on.
Before I dive into these 6 signs, I should let you know that the very best way to find out whether you still have a chance to win back your ex or not is by taking my free quiz. Just go to BreakupBrad.com/Quiz, answer the simple questions, and you’ll get a detailed results report showing you your odds of getting back together, plus my personalized recommendation of how to maximize your chances moving forward. Again, you can take the quiz for free at BreakupBrad.com/Quiz.
Now, let’s talk about the 6 signs that indicate your ex is over you…
Sign #1: Your ex hasn’t made any attempt to contact you for a month or more.
If your ex hasn’t made any effort to get in touch with you — if they haven’t texted, called, sent you a message on SnapChat or Facebook — for a month or more, that’s definitely a sign that they’re losing interest or moving on. Sure, there’s a chance that he or she happens to be watching my videos here on YouTube and they’re just employing my No Contact strategy… so, this isn’t a surefire sign that things are over forever. But, in most cases, if you ex isn’t making any effort at all to reach out to you for a month or more, it’s an indication that they’re moving on and their feelings for you are fading.
Sign #2: Your ex doesn’t reply when you attempt to bring up happy shared memories or inside jokes.
As I’m sure many of you are aware, one of the ‘ex back’ techniques I teach here on YouTube and in my Ex Factor program involves planting seeds of nostalgia in your ex’s mind by subtly dropping reminders of happy times you shared together or inside jokes that only your ex will understand. Now, this is actually a very effective strategy when used correctly… usually, if your ex still has feelings for you, they’re going to respond to this kind of “nostalgia-inciting” message in a positive way. At the very least, you can expect a simple “LOL” or smilie emoji in response. If you’ve tried this a couple of times, and you know you’ve brought up a really positive happy memory and executed this technique properly, then a lack of reply is usually a sign that your ex is moving on.
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Sign #3: Your ex has been in a relationship with someone new for a month or longer.
I’m sure you’ve heard of the term “rebound relationship” before, right? A rebound relationship is when you immediately begin dating someone new after breaking up, and it’s typically a short-lived fling that helps dull the post-breakup heartache. Usually, rebounds aren’t serious, and studies have shown that the majority of rebound relationships fizzle out within a month or two at the most. Now, sometimes, you can actually even use your ex’s rebound relationship to your advantage… I’ve made a past video on that very topic, in fact, which you can check out by searching my channel for the term “rebound” after this video is over.
BUT… sometimes, a rebound relationship can morph into something more serious and long-lasting. So, if your ex has been with someone new for a month or longer since you broke up, then that’s a sign that he or she might have moved on and might actually be in a more serious relationship with this new person. Unfortunately, that’s usually a bad sign for your chances of getting back together.
Sign #4: Your ex doesn’t respond at all to your attempts to incite jealousy.
If you’ve signed up for my Ex Factor program, then you’re probably aware of a technique that I teach called “Covert Jealousy”. Covert Jealousy is a sneaky tactic that allows you to use a little bit of jealousy to help change your ex’s mind about breaking up… and eventually make them want you back. If you’ve used this technique correctly, it usually works like magic, and you’ll definitely get a response from your ex… but if you’ve used Covert Jealousy exactly how I describe in my program, and you’re not getting any kind of reply from your ex at all… that can often indicate that your ex isn’t emotionally invested in you any more, and is moving on. By itself, this doesn’t always mean your chances of getting back together are completely over, but it’s definitely not a good sign and often means your ex is over you.
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