How to Keep Your Boyfriend Addicted to You
— How to Keep Your Boyfriend Addicted to You
How’s it going, YouTube? Brad Browning here. Today, I’m going to shift gears just a little bit. Usually, I talk about how to get an ex BACK after you’ve lost them. But sometimes, the best offence is an amazing defence. I mean, if you already KNOW how to make a man fully addicted to you, you’d never have to watch any of my other breakup videos.
So today, that’s precisely what I’m going to help you with. I’m going to teach you several tips that will make sure your boyfriend (or future boyfriend) never has eyes for anyone else.
And just in case anything I talk about is confusing to you, please leave your questions in the comments section below — I always do my best to get back to each and every one of you.
Now, I know that in a long term relationship, it’s common for the passion, intimacy, and romantice energy to wane a little bit. It’s even MORE common for people in relationships to take their partners for granted… and this can have a hugely negative impact on your daily chemistry.
But luckily, rebuilding that connection, appreciation, and “spark” in your relationship isn’t as difficult as you might think it is… EVEN IF you’ve been together with your boyfriend or husband for years. In fact, if you follow my advice closely, he’ll be worshipping you and loving you until the end of your days.
So without further ado, lemme get to the first tip… which is…
Tip 1 – Make sure you’re able to create your own happiness. It’s obviously okay to derive a ton of love, happiness, and pleasure from your relationship, but if your man is the sole source of what makes you happy, you’ll begin to drive him away.
There’s nothing more attractive and alluring than a woman that is absolutely brimming with confidence and happiness. And if you’re able to create this own happiness in your life, your boyfriend will want to stick around and experience that joy as well too.
Try this… I call this “Single Lady’s Mindset”. Now, as weird and difficult as it is, picture yourself as a happily single woman. Now picture all the things that would make you happy in that moment. You probably have more time to hang out with your girlfriends, socialize, meet new people, enjoy your passions, and so on. In other words, you’re able to create a kind of happiness that depends only on YOU, not anybody else. This is the kind of mental framework that you should assume… and I guarantee that once your boyfriend gets wind of this kind of new attractive independence, he’ll want you more and more.
Tip 2 – Praise him for what he’s genuinely good at. There’s nothing like a sweet, genuine compliment… especially when you know the person giving the compliment TRULY means it. See, men love feeling like they’re competent at things — we’re just biologically wired to feel this way. So take advantage of this psychological loophole and watch as us men just keep coming back to you for more and more.
So many men nowadays don’t receive enough compliments. In fact, studies show men compliment each other far less than women do… so chances are, your guy probably isn’t used to hearing such positive words. Sending him some genuine verbal love will surely knock him off guard… in a good way.
But again, the key here is to make sure that what you say is 100% GENUINE. And it’s even better if you’re complimenting him about something he’s actually passionate about.
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Once you nail this little tip, he’ll be putty in your hands in literally no time.
Tips 3 – Make him feel masculine. Men love to be the hunters and providers in a family unit — it’s ingrained in our DNA. Letting us feel like we’re dominant and in control is one of the sexiest things we can feel… even if YOU are secretly the one calling all the shots.
Confused? Let me give you some examples of what you can say in certain situations…
Say you’re cold and you want your guy to give you his coat. You COULD say something like… “Gimme your coat. I’m freezing my ass off.” That gets the message across, right? But it’s not quite the way you want to make him feel like he’s in control.
So instead, you could say something like… “I’m cold… brrr” This gives your man an opportunity to take command and offer you his cold.
Here’s another example… instead of saying, “Make me something for dinner”… say something like, “I’m starting to feel a bit hungry…”
Likewise, you should say something like, “I’d love to spend more time with you!” instead of “Ugh, can you please get off your phone?”
You get the picture.
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