I’ve Changed My Mind About No Contact (Not What You Think)
— I've Changed My Mind About No Contact (Not What You Think)
Hey, Brad here… and for years, I’ve talked about why No Contact is one of the most crucial steps to getting your ex back.
And… it still is. It’s MASSIVELY important. But many people think that all you need to do in the “No Contact” phase is simply…to not contact your ex. However, this is totally not true… in fact, simply ignoring your ex is generally not enough to get them to come running back to you.
Instead, you need to be more active and dynamic when you’re trying to get your ex back during “No Contact”… which is why I’m calling MY particular brand of “No Contact” from here on out, “The Dynamic No Contact Phase.” That’s not to say that I’m changing my technique – I’m simply changing the name to avoid confusion and add way more context to this technique.
So what do I mean by “dynamic”? Well, it’s simple. While you’re in your period of “Dynamic No Contact”, you have to actively be using secret ‘mind control’ tactics against your ex. And you need to be using tools like social media and mutual friends to obtain these goals.
So in this video, I’m going to go over a few things that you MUST be doing during “Dynamic No Contact” in order to make sure that your ex crawls over burning coal to get back together with you.
Dynamic No Contact Tip #1 – One of the first things that you need to do when you engage in Dynamic No Contact is make sure that you remove every single reminder that you have of your ex. That means that whatever gifts your ex gave you… their photos, their love letters, the clothes that they’ve left at your place… you need to do WHATEVER you can to make sure that you put everything in a box, put that box in your closet or attic, and NEVER look at it.
The reason you want to do this is two-fold… one, you want to do this so you minimize the amount of time you spend thinking about your ex. Right now, there are far more valuable things to concentrate your time and effort on… and you need to make sure that you’re doing THOSE things so you minimize the amount of time feeling lonely and discouraged. And secondly, in order to get your ex back, you have to shift the balance of power from your ex… to YOU.
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And how you do this is by obtaining a way more powerful mental mindset. Right now, chances are you probably miss your ex dearly… and if given the chance, you’d probably melt like hot ice cream if you ran into your ex in public. What you need to do is assume a mindset in which you feel like you don’t need your ex anymore. And if you’re constantly exposed to reminders of your ex, the more you’re likely to subconsciously make a huge deal about him or her.
However, if they’re out of sight and out of mind, eventually you won’t think about your ex as much… and this is EXACTLY where you want to be.
I’ll elaborate a little more later when I get to tip 5…
Dynamic No Contact Tip #2 – Expand your social circle. This is one of the best ways to not only take your mind off your ex, but also meet other people that could potentially make your ex jealous. See, jealousy is a pretty powerful tool when it comes to getting your ex back and it’s one of the best reasons to expand your social circle… but expanding your social circle has a ton of other potential benefits too. For one, it’ll help you keep your mind off your ex. And two, it works hand in hand with one of my most powerful psychological techniques: the Covert Jealousy Tactic.
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