“Should I Give Up On My Ex For Good?”
— "Should I Give Up On My Ex For Good?"
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If your ex is slipping away from you for a while now, and you’re starting to lose hope that you’ll ever be able to get them back… I made this video especially for you. In just a second, I’ll be giving you some tips and guidance to figure out whether it’s time to give up and let your ex go for good.
I’m Brad Browning, AKA Breakup Brad, and helping people like you get back together with an ex is what I do. My channel here on YouTube is the #1 place for trusted breakup advice, and my videos are always ad-free. If you haven’t already done so, please join the half a million or so others who have already subscribed to my channel… just click subscribe and turn on notifications with the bell icon.
Now, the topic for today’s video: how do you know when all hope is lost, and you should quit trying to ever get your ex back?
Actually, one of the best ways is to go to BreakupBrad.com/quiz and take my free 5-minute quiz. Just go and fill the questions out after this video is over, and you’ll see a detailed score and results report analyzing your situation and whether there’s still any hope left. Again, it’s at BreakupBrad.com/Quiz.
Here are 3 more scenarios it’s DEFINITELY over for good:
If your ex has taken out a restraining order or court order against you
If your ex has already re-married
If your ex has passed away
So, uh, yeah… if you’re in any of those situations, you can stop watching now and start moving on with your life… unfortunately all 3 of these things mean it’s truly over with your ex for good.
But, for most of you watching, things aren’t likely that dire. Maybe your ex just feels far more distant and disinterested when you talk to them, maybe they haven’t replied to any of your messages or calls lately, or maybe you’ve been trying for months now to win them back and made little progress…. If that’s the case, here are some tips to help you decide if it’s over for good or if you still have a chance and should continue chasing your ex.
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Tip #1: Consider how often your ex is reaching out to you.
How many times since the breakup has your ex initiated contact with you? In other words, how often did they send you a text out of the blue, call you to catch up, invite you to hang out with mutual friends, etc…? The more often your ex reaches out to you without you initiating the conversation, the less likely it is that they’re completely over you. This is especially true if they are contacting you for unimportant stuff, like asking what you’ve been up to or sharing a funny inside joke.
If your ex hasn’t contacted you at all in months, and any conversations you do have are the ones you’ve started yourself… that’s not a great sign, and can suggest that it might be time to give up trying.
Tip #2: Evaluate your ex’s current relationship status.
I’m sure it won’t surprise you to hear that your ex’s current dating life has a big impact on whether they’re ever going to be willing to get back together. If they’re not dating anyone at all, and haven’t been on any dates with new people since you broke up, that’s great news for your chances of getting them back.
On the other hand, if they’ve been seeing someone for over a month now… and especially if it looks like that relationship with this new person is getting serious — in other words, if it’s not just a short-term rebound — that’s not good news.
Now, just because your ex is dating again doesn’t mean — by itself — that all hope is lost. But if they’re now in serious relationships with someone new, that’s not a good sign for your chances.
Tip #3: Look for jealousy.
If your ex has shown any signs that they’re jealous when you tell them things about your life since the breakup, that’s a strong indication they’re still emotionally invested and not ready to let go of you completely. That usually a clear sign that there’s still hope to get your ex back.
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